In the last couple of years I’ve kept track of my bating statistics. Partly out of curiosity and partly out of motivation to bate more and bate better. As the Proud Bators project and community have grown, there have been others who have done the same and joined in tracking. For 2024 I’m stepping it up. If you’d like to sign up to be a part of the group tracking your bates in 2024 there are a number of ways you can get involved. Sign up to the group using the form below and I’ll be in touch to explain …
Category: The Bator Blog
What Is Edging?
Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash Edging is a pretty common term in the bator community. Actually, there are plenty of people outside the bator community who have heard of the term or might use it. We’ve talked about in on plenty of episodes of the podcast but in this article I’ll take a bit of a deeper dive into it. What it is, the reasons people do it and the benefits of it. I’ll also throw in a couple of tips towards the end. What Is Edging? For those that don’t know, in this context edging means going to …
Proud Bator Blog – Talking With Friends About It
Some tips for talking to your friends about bating. In this case, I don’t mean guys you’ve met online in bate spaces, or guys you have a sexual history with. I mean bringing it up with guys already in your social circle.
Proud Bator Blog – May is Masturbation Month
Hey Bators it’s our month this month! May is Masturbation Month. If you didn’t know that then that’s cool, now you do.
I’ve known it for a while, my mates know that I know it and a couple even remind me each month, even my non-bator mates.
What Kind of Bator Are You?
I’ve met many different types of bators in my world, more and more I’m realising there’s different types. Take my bator survey to find out your type.
Masturbation Documentary Review: “Sticky: A (Self) Love Story – 2016”
One of the first of its kind, “Sticky: A (Self) Love Story” is a full-length documentary discussing the touchy subject of masturbation, earning positive reviews for its stance on sex education. Addressing truths, myths, and societal taboos of everyone’s favorite bedtime routine, “Sticky” asks the growing question “Why aren’t we talking about this?”
PBA Podcast – Season 3, Episode 1 – The New Format!
The new format of Liam’s bator podcast launched! New segments and a new cohost, have a listen and enjoy the bator chat.
My Toys 1 – The Fleshlight
I was probably in my mid-20s before I got my first one. Shocking I know! But for so long I loved my hand. It was quick and easy and really really portable. But then one day, as a treat, my partner came home and surprised me with a Fleshlight Ice.
My First Wank
Here’s the first story of The Bator Life. The story of my first solo session. The day my life changed forever. My first wank.
Why I Started The Bator Life
Here’s my blog dedicated to The Bator Life. I’m a proud bator as well as an erotic author and this is the space I’ve created to put it out there.